The difference between like, honey, and love !

Like it is when you want to have someone. . .
Honey is when you want a happy person. . .
And love is when you will make sacrifices for that person. . .
When you are sad and cry so someone who 'likes' will say 'please do not cry anymore'
but someone who 'love' will be silent and began to cry with you. . .
And someone who 'love' will let you cry and wait until cool and said 'let's finish this together'
as someone who likes to be by your side then he will ask 'can I kiss you? "

but someone who loves you then he will say 'let me hold you'
and someone who as someone who likes to be by your side then he will ask 'can I kiss you? "
you will not speak .. he just will always hold your hand tightly as if he was not going to let you fall. . .
When you love someone and someone is hurt then you will be angry and would not want to talk to him ..
But if you love someone and someone is hurt then you will cry for it ..
And if you love someone and someone is hurt then you will smile even though it was bitter and said 'he just did not know what he was doing'
love is selfishness, self ...
Darling is giving and receiving ..
And love is willing to sacrifice ...
Like it will only do if it was fun ..
Unfortunately do because they want to always be there for him ..
And love does not want to do because it hurt him no matter what our circumstances. . .

orang tua vs anak

gue abis baca note yang dibikin sama guru gue yang tercinta emak yunia !
dari situ gue mikir, ternyata ga cuma anak yang bisa bikin dosa ke orang tua nya, tapi orang tua pun bisa berdosa sama anaknya, kalo misalnya tuh orang tua lalai terhadap tugasnya, ga memberi kan contoh yang baik sama anaknya, itu juga bisa si hitung dosa kan ? tapi parahnya, anak dibiasakan untuk meminta maaf kepada orang tuanya jika anak itu berbuat dosa, tapi kalo orang tua nya yang berbuat dosa ?? apa orang tua itu akan meminta maaf ? pasti sulit, karena mayoritas orang tua selalu merasa diri mereka yang paling benar, dan gengsi mereka sangat besar untuk meminta maaf pada anaknya ! cuma karena malu, minta maaf sama anak kecil..

satu hal lagi, orang tua itu susah menerima kritikan dari anaknya. kalo anaknya bilang dia begini lah dia begitu lah, pasti mereka bilang itu hal yang tidak sopan. apa iya ? padahal engga loh, kritikan itu bisa datang dari siapa pun ! cuma caranya beda-beda.. tapi bukan berarti kritikan dari anak ga harus digubris kan ? kalo emang kritikannya bener kenapa enggaa ? jangan cuma karena omongan itu datang dari seorang anak. kalo kata bokap gue, jangan liat siapa yang ngomong dengerin apa omongannya !

note for all parents in this world: coba lah kalian berusaha menghargai apa yang dibicarakan seorang anak, walau mereka lebih kecil terkadang omongan mereka itu benar !